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INTRODUCTION
INTRODUCTION
The book of Ephesians is six chapters long, containing 155 verses of rich and
wonderful text that speak to the mind, heart, and soul. The book of Ephesians
has played a crucial role in the Church throughout the ages in terms of the
theology it teaches and the practice it informs. Famous pastor and theologian
John Calvin stated that it was his favorite part of the Bible. Poet Samuel
Taylor Coleridge described it as “the divinest composition of man.” Many New
Testament scholars say it is the pinnacle of Paul’s work. For the next 13 weeks,
we invite you to join with us in exploring the richness of the book of Ephesians.
Of all the letters within the New Testament, Ephesians is one that could
have most likely been written to the modern church. When Paul wrote, he
was typically writing in response to a particular situation. Yet in the book of
Ephesians, we see something dierent. Paul writes this letter to churches in
Asia Minor with no specific occasion or problem in mind. Paul simply writes
this letter to bring about encouragement in the Gospel, while oering practical
insight on how to live in light of the Gospel.
Author/date/background
The very first verse of Ephesians states that Paul is the author of this book.
While there is some debate out there regarding whether Paul really wrote this
letter or not, we must take the author at his word here at the beginning and see
that it is Paul who penned this letter speaking truth (4:15, 25). Paul mentions
How to Use This Guide
This guide has been specifically prepared with you in mind. It will help life
groups grow deeper together in relationship with God and one another. Each
week there are conversations starters to help get things rolling, followed
by questions for discussion based on the text. Each week wraps up with
personal applications and things to pray for to help you grow spiritually.
We realize you may not be able to get to every question. Pick the ones that
would best work for your group. Obviously, you are more than welcome
to pull in other resources, or highlights from the sermons each week. Our
hope is that by participating in this study, you will have a firmer grasp on the
Scriptures and a stronger connection with Christ.
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his chains and imprisonment three times in this book (3:1; 4:1; 6:20). Therefore,
many scholars believe the date of this book to be 62 A.D. when Paul was in
Rome (Acts 28). During this same period, Paul also wrote Colossians, Philemon,
and Philippians. These four epistles are now commonly referred to as the
“prison epistles.
While the letter is called “Paul’s Epistle to the Ephesians, it is best understood
that the letter was not solely intended for the church in Ephesus. It was written
more like a general letter that would have been circulated throughout Asia
Minor (modern-day Turkey) that existed around Ephesus. This is because the
words “in Ephesus” are absent from some of the earliest and best manuscripts.
This makes sense since there is no personal greeting anywhere within the
letter –which is dierent from Paul’s other letters. The letter has most likely
become associated with Ephesus
due to it being the largest and most
influential church in the region at
the time of its writing.
Ephesus was an important city in
Asia Minor. Paul would have been
familiar with the area due to two,
nearly three, years he spent there
during his third missionary journey
(see Acts 18:23-21:17). Ephesus
was the third-largest city in the
Roman empire with a population
estimated around 250,000. It
was a harbor city and the largest
commerce center on the west. Prior
to Christianity reaching the city, it was well-known for pagan worship. It was
deeply entrenched in the worship of Artemis (Diana according to the Romans).
The temple itself was considered one of the seven wonders of the ancient
world. People worshiped this false god, seeing it as a goddess of fertility, magic,
and astrology. Its commerce was deeply tied and connected to idol worship,
and as Christianity’s influence spread, it quickly upset the cities culture and
economy and caused riots (Acts 19). We find out elsewhere (in 1 Timothy 1:4,
7) as Timothy pastors the church, it faces false teachers who were interested in
endless myths but not necessarily sound biblical teaching.
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PURPOSE OF EPHESIANS
As mentioned previously, within the context of the letter, there is no
specific issue that Paul is writing to address. Some consider this letter
more as a theological tract providing insight on what the core essentials
of the Christian faith are. Ultimately, it is best for us to see this letter as
providing an understanding of the new creation we have become in Christ
and the new community the Gospel creates for us to live and operate in.
The letter of Ephesians teaches us that when we embrace the love that
Christ has for us, we will embrace the way of life that Christ loves.
major themes
Reconciliation
Peppered throughout this book is the notion that God’s Gospel of grace is one
that continually brings together two parties. In fact, Paul states in Ephesians
1:9-10 that the Gospel was to bring about unity with all things. This is seen in
two ways:
1. God with Us. The letter focuses on the historical work of Jesus. Jesus’ work
on the cross brought about cosmic reconciliation between God and us. The
Father has sent the Son to redeem us, and the Spirit is at work preserving us
until the final day (Ephesians 1:15-23; 3:1-13).
2. You and I. The cross reconciles all people (regardless of race, ethnicity, and
any other dividing lines) into one body—the Church. Paul helps to explain our
unity in Christ, the love we share in Christ, and what we have in Christ through
our baptism and life in the Spirit. While we may have taken dierent paths to
come to Christ, we are one new humanity through Him (Ephesians 1:23; 2:10-22;
4:1-6).
Mystery
Six times throughout the letter, the Apostle Paul writes concerning the
“mystery”. When Paul uses this word, he is not simply referring to something
known but diicult to understand. Rather, he is referring to something that is
completely unknowable unless God reveals it. It is a special divine act in which
knowledge is expressed that is beyond our human reach.
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INTRODUCTION
In Christ
Ephesians mentions union with Christ and being “in Christ” more than any
other letter—about 36 times. This phrase occurs approximately 164 times in
Paul’s 13 letters. The term “in Christ” gets to the heart of Christianity. To be “in
Christ” is to be personally and vitally united to Christ. Christians are people who
are in Christ. You are united in His death and His resurrection.
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supplemental resources
Book / Alive in Him: How Being Embraced by the Love of Christ Changes
Everything by Gloria Furman
Study Book / Reading Ephesians with John Stott, by John Stott with Andrew T. Le
Peau
Right Now Media / The Book of Ephesians by J.D. Greear
Right Now Media / EphesiansWhat Is God’s Plan? By Phil Vischer
Video / Overview: Ephesians by The Bible Project
Courses / 3 free courses from The Gospel Coalition
Outline of EPHESIANS
Ephesians can be broken down into two main sections. In Chapters 1-3, the
Apostle Paul lays out the indicative truth of the Gospel. In Chapters 4-6, Paul
gives instructions on how we might live in light of the Gospel.
I. Greeting & Introduction (1:1-2)
II. Theological Foundation—An Explanation of the Gospel (1:3-3:21)
a. Spiritual Blessings (1:3-14)
b. Thanksgiving and Prayer for Insight (1:15-23)
c. Overview of the New Life in Christ (2:1-10)
d. Reconciliation in Christ (2:11-22)
e. Mystery of God’s Purposes (3:1-13)
f. Prayer to be Rooted in God’s Love and Doxology (3:14-21)
III. Practical Outworking of the Gospel (4:1-6:20)
a. Exercising Gis as a Unified Body (4:1-16)
b. Children of the Light: Walking in the Newness of Life (4:17-24)
c. Walking in Love (4:25-5:20)
d. Practical Instructions: Social Maturity (5:21-6:9)
e. Fighting the Spiritual Battle; Stand Strong (6:10-20)
IV. Concluding Remarks (6:21-24)
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disCipLeship
Included with each week is content specifically
prepared for families. It will help parents build
family discipleship time into their family’s life.
Learning about family discipleship time and
keeping it a regular part of your rhythm can be
challenging, so one way to begin is with inten-
tional family Bible time.
Each week you’ll find family discussion questions, followed by “wow” words
and big ideas, and a “going deeper” section for older kids, or inquiring minds.
You do not have to discuss every question. Just like with the rest of the study
guide, pick the questions that best work for you and your family. Our hope is
that by participating in this study, a vibrant family discipleship can take root
and grow into your rhythm of family life.
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Introduction
As a writer, some of the hardest words to cra are
the ones that start or end a piece of composition.
Yet as readers, if we’re truly honest, oen we skip
the greetings and salutations because we believe
they are there simply for perfunctory reasons.
When we do that, we can miss really important
things. The same can be said when we approach
the Epistles (letters) in the New Testament. If we
truly believe that all Scripture is breathed out by
God and is profitable to us (2 Timothy 3:16-17),
then even these seemingly “insignificant remarks
can make a transformational impact on our view
of the rest of the letter, God, and ourselves. In
these two short and simple verses, much can be learned about Paul’s view of his
fellow believers and what he wishes for them.
Conversation Starter
Q. When you receive a letter (or email), is it your habit to skip to the body of the
content, passing over the greeting and skipping the closing? Why or why not?
Read & Discuss
READ EPHESIANS 1:1-2
Q. Out the gate, we are told that the Apostle Paul is the one writing this letter.
What do you know about the Apostle Paul? Hint: See him share his testimony in
Acts 26:4-23.
Follow Up: How has Paul interacted and engaged with the city of Ephesus
before? Hint: See Acts 18:23-21:17 for highlights of Paul’s missionary journey:
preaching the Gospel, performing miracles, and changing the cultural dynamic of
the city.
Q. Why does it matter that Paul is an apostle and has the authority to write this
letter?
grace & peace
EPHESIANS 1:1-2
Ephesians 1:1-2
1
Paul, an apostle of
Christ Jesus by the
will of God, To the saints
who are in Ephesus,
and are faithful in Christ
Jesus:
2
Grace to you
and peace from God
our Father and the Lord
Jesus Christ.
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personal application / reflection
Two things that will be teased out throughout our study in the book of
Ephesians is our status and connection with God and the community He
is buildingthe Church. How would you describe the status of your walk
with Jesus today? Your engagement with the local Church? What is going
well? Where is there room for growth? Begin to pray for your love for Christ
and the Church to be increased during our study of Ephesians.
grace & peace
EPHESIANS 1:1-2
Follow Up: How did Paul become an apostle? Hint: By the will of God. Does this
impact the way you will read and listen to the rest of what Paul has to say in this
letter?
Q. Paul addresses the readers of this letter as saints. What image comes to your
mind when you think of saints?
Follow Up: The word “saint” is oen referred to someone who is devoted to
God; sacred/holy. Is this the way you view and see yourself? Is this how you see
others you’re in relationship with at Summit View?
Q. Paul goes on to describe the readers as “faithful in Christ Jesus”. When he
says “faithful”, he isn’t necessarily speaking to an issue of trustworthiness, but
rather the fact that they are believers in the person and work of Jesus. Many of
the struggles we face are due to an identity crisiswe forget we are “saints”,
“believers”, and “in Christ”. Why is it important for us to remember this as a key
part of our identity?
Q. Aer greeting the believers, Paul gives two blessings. What are they?
Q. Paul’s initial message to them is one of grace and peace. Grace indicates
God’s free, saving initiative and peace points to the initiative He has taken to
reconcile sinners to Himself and to each other in their new community. Are
these two things you wish for others to experience? Have you experienced them
for yourself?
Follow Up: From where do these two blessings flow?
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Family Discussion
Q. Paul, or the Apostle Paul,
is the one writing this letter.
What do you know about the
Apostle Paul? (Paul shares his
testimony: Acts 26:4-23. Paul’s
time previously in Ephesus: Acts
18:23-21:17. Paul’s story: Acts
7:58-28:31.)
Q. What is an apostle? How does it dier from a disciple?
Wow Words/Big Ideas
Grace: Undeserved favor given to people by God. It’s not getting
what you deserve; instead, it’s getting what you don’t deserve.
Because of God’s grace, sinners can be rescued due to Jesus’
death on the cross and His rising from the dead (Ephesians 1:7).
You must know the grace of God before the peace of God.
Peace: We are reconciled (or made right) with God because Jesus
paid the price for our sins through His death on the cross. We are
no longer separated from God (Romans 5:1).
Going Deeper
Ephesians is a book about God’s love—God’s love for all people.
Jesus died on the cross for all people. No longer is there a
separation between God and people or between people; more
specifically, Jews and Gentiles (Ephesians 3:1-11).
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Verses to Remember
For by grace you have been saved through faith. And this is
not your own doing; it is the gi of God, not a result of works,
so that no one may boast. Ephesians 2:8-9
grace & peace
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Introduction
At first glance of Ephesians 1:3-14, we
see the Apostle Paul searching for words
to describe the delight he has in what
God has done for believers through
Christ. One commentator even describes
Paul’s tone, words, and demeanor here
as “controlled ecstasy”. In fact, verses
3-14 are one single glorious run-on
sentence (sorry to our English teachers
out there!) Paul encourages the reader
to bless God because He has blessed us
with a multitude of blessings. This week
we will start to look at what has Paul so
hyped up.
MAIN IDEA
God’s eternal plan, in Christ Jesus is our
blessing, for the praise of His glorious
name.
Conversation Starter
Q. Giving thanks is not just for Thanksgiving. What are you thankful for?
Read & Discuss
READ EPHESIANS 1:3-6
Ephesians begins with a Jewish-style poem praising God for His eternal plan
of redemption through Jesus Christ. This book is a summary of the Gospel and
how we are to use the Gospel to shape every aspect of our lives.
Verses 3-6 are blessings, or praises, to God. Praise prepare our hearts to respond
rightly to what God has done. Paul normally uses this space as a time to give
thanks for the recipients of the letter; instead, he lists out what God has done for
the believer. Read verses 3-6. What is Paul specifically giving thanks to God for?
Q. How has God blessed us?
SPIRITUAL BLESSINGS: ADOPTED
EPHESIANS 1:3-6
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Praise for Spiritual Blessings in
Christ
3
Blessed be the God and Father
of our Lord Jesus Christ, who has
blessed us in Christ with every
spiritual blessing in the heavenly
places,
4
even as he chose us in
him before the foundation of the
world, that we should be holy and
blameless before him. In love
5
he predestined us for adoption
to himself as sons through Jesus
Christ, according to the purpose of
his will,
6
to the praise of his glorious
grace, with which he has blessed us
in the Beloved.
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Q. What are the blessings?
Q. When did God give these blessings?
Q. Why did He give them?
Q. What happens in your heart when you focus on praising God for what He has
done and take time to celebrate it?
READ EPHESIANS 1:4
God’s redemptive plan has always existed. This means that from eternity past,
God has been directing His purposes and nothing can get in the way. Stop and
think for a few minutes about the creation story, keeping in mind that God knew
everything that would take place. And He knew that in Jesus He would save
every believer from sin and death.
Q. How does this change your view of God?
Q. What does it mean to be chosen in Christ?
SPIRITUAL BLESSINGS: ADOPTED
EPHESIANS 1:3-6
Between the birth and the return of Jesus, the age to come overlaps
with the present age. To be blessed in Christ is to enjoy a foretaste of
future blessings — intimacy with God, true life, and even, at times,
many physical benefits. We should expect the Father to bless us, for
we are His children, though He may give us blessings that we do not
expect or request. But as in all things, He knows best what to give us.
- The Abundance of
Blessing in Christ
from Ligonier Ministries
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Q. How does this aect your understanding of your role in your salvation?
The second half of verse 4 says “that we should be holy and blameless before
him.” Humanity was created in the image of God (Genesis 1:26-28); sin has
distorted our reflection of that image (Romans 1:18, 21-22); in Christ we are
made righteous (Romans 5:18-19); and we should reflect God’s image more and
more as we walk with Christ (Romans 12:2).
Q. Do you ever consider what image you are reflecting? Who, or what do others
see when they look at your life?
Q. Growing in holiness is not optional; the good news of the Gospel sets us free
from the chains of sin. What chains to you need to step out of?
SPIRITUAL BLESSINGS: ADOPTED
EPHESIANS 1:3-6
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personal
application /
reflection
God’s plan all along has
been salvation for His
praise and glory. We see it
threaded throughout the
Old Testament. His plan
should induce praise in our
thoughts, words, and deeds.
Look up the following
passages and marvel
together at His glorious
grace that he has blessed us
with in the Beloved.
Genesis 3:14-15
Genesis 12:1-3
Deuteronomy 7:6-8
2 Samuel 7:8-16
Ezekiel 34:11-16
READ EPHESIANS 1:5
Predestined in Greek means “marked out
beforehand”. It emphasizes God’s eternal plan;
He didn’t make things up as they unfolded. His
plan all along was to adopt us through Christ.
As adopted children, we are reminded that it
was God, in His grace, who chose us. It wasn’t
our own doing.
Q. Why do you think it matters that we
understand this?
We were born into brokenness with no hope
of saving ourselves, much like a person in
ancient times had no hope of improving their
economic station unless they were adopted
into a new family (there was no such thing
as the American Dream). Once adopted, they
were a legitimate member of the family with
full rights and privileges (family, station,
inheritance, etc.). This is true for us as
believers in Christ! Without our adoption into
His family, we have no hope. Now, we not only
have access to God, but are also given the
rights and privileges as children of God.
Q. How does looking at your salvation through the lens of adoption change your
understanding of it?
Q. There’s a misguided, popular saying, “God helps those who help themselves”.
Considering this passage, why is this saying untrue and unhelpful? Why do you
think it became popular?
READ EPHESIANS 1:5-6 (WITH EMPHASIS ON VERSE 6)
Q. Why did God save us? Hint: It isn’t about us.
Follow Up: How are we to respond?
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Family Discussion
Q. We hear people say, “I deserve
_____.” What is a situation
where you felt you deserved
something? What was it and
why?
Wow Words/Big Ideas
Predestined: Marked out beforehand; chosen by God. Specifically
refers to the sinners whom God rescued.
Adoption: The action or fact of legally being responsible for and
raising another person’s child as one’s own.
Imagine a King noticing an orphan living on the street. The
orphan did not deserve anything, yet the King could bring him
to the palace as a servant (where he would have food, shelter,
and clothing). Or even more surprising, the King could adopt
the orphan. That child is now a prince or princess along with
the King’s other children. He or she is entitled to the same
position, privileges, and inheritance as the other children.
When we believe that Jesus died for our sins, rose again, and
we trust that He alone can save us—we become that child
adopted by a Heavenly King. We have a position, privileges,
and an inheritance.
We are co-heirs with Jesus!
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Verses to Remember
For by grace you have been saved through faith. And this is
not your own doing; it is the gi of God, not a result of works,
so that no one may boast. Ephesians 2:8-9
SPIRITUAL BLESSINGS: ADOPTED
EPHESIANS 1:3-6
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Adam and Eve, the first humans, chose to disobey God. Their sin
brought sadness, pain, and death into the world. However, God
had a plan all along. This was decided long before we existed
(before Creation!) God sent His Son for everyone.
Going Deeper
Ephesians is a book about God’s love for you. Look at John 3:16
and add your name in the blanks:
For God so loved the world (yes, He
loves _________________________)
that He gave His only Son, that (if
__________________________ ) believes
in Him, (__________________________)
should not perish but have eternal life.
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Introduction
This week, we continue examining Paul’s run-on sentence that started back in
verse 3. As we do so, it is important to remind ourselves about how we approach
the Scriptures. Regardless of one’s background, whenever we approach the
Scripture to read them, we must understand we bring a set of preconceived
notions and expectations. Unfortunately, we typically approach the Scriptures
in a very “me-centric” way. Yet, the intention of the Scriptures is not to be
all about us. We are not the main characters that God focuses on. We are not
the main character in this storyGod is. When we read the Bible, we find that
through the work of God, we receive benefits through His grace and love toward
us. In this section of Scripture, Paul is focusing on what has been given to us
through the work of Christ.
MAIN IDEA
The spiritual blessings we receive is secured through Christ and assured by the
Spirit.
SPIRITUAL BLESSINGS: REDEMPTION & INHERITANCE
EPHESIANS 1:7-14
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Ephesians 1:7-14
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In him we have redemption through his blood, the forgiveness of our
trespasses, according to the riches of his grace,
8
which he lavished
upon us, in all wisdom and insight
9
making known to us the mystery of
his will, according to his purpose, which he set forth in Christ
10
as a plan
for the fullness of time, to unite all things in him, things in heaven and
things on earth.
11
In him we have obtained an inheritance, having been predestined
according to the purpose of him who works all things according to
the counsel of his will,
12
so that we who were the first to hope in Christ
might be to the praise of his glory.
13
In him you also, when you heard
the word of truth, the gospel of your salvation, and believed in him,
were sealed with the promised Holy Spirit,
14
who is the guarantee of
our inheritance until we acquire possession of it, to the praise of his
glory.
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Conversation Starter
Q. This week and last have been working under the title of “Spiritual Blessings.
What are some blessings in your life?
Read & Discuss
READ EPHESIANS 1:7-14
Q. According to verse 7, what do we receive from God by the work of Christ?
Hint: Redemption, forgiveness of sins.
Follow Up: In your own words, what is redemption?
Follow Up: Paul uses everyone’s favorite “F” word hereforgiveness. Paul tells
us that God has lavished His grace upon us with forgiveness. That means God’s
forgiveness is complete, not begrudging, and abundantly given. How does this
make you feel regarding guilt of past (or present) sins in your life?
Q. Paul connects our ability to receive redemption and the forgiveness of sins
through the shedding of Jesus’ blood. Why is the sacrifice of Jesus’ blood so
significant?
Follow Up: Compare this verse with the following verses: Galatians 3:13; 1 Peter
1:18-19; 1 Timothy 2:5; Hebrews 9:15; Mark 10:45. How do these fill in the picture
of Christ’s payment for our sins?
Q. Paul indicates here that among the blessings that we have received by grace
is “redemption” and “forgiveness of our trespasses. What do these verses say
that we contribute to the act of our salvation?
Follow Up: How do you feel, knowing that God chose to love you even before
you did anything?
Q. What spiritual blessings are needed in your home, in your neighborhood, in
your city, and beyond? What eects of the fall do you see or experience in your
midst that need to be “united in him” (verse 10)?
SPIRITUAL BLESSINGS: REDEMPTION & INHERITANCE
EPHESIANS 1:7-14
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Follow Up: How can you, with your family, friends, and/or life group, participate
in Christ’s unifying, reconciling work?
Q. The section of verses 11-14 starts and ends with a reference to an inheritance
What do we know about it?
Follow Up: Who is guaranteeing our inheritance?
Follow Up: Why is the fact that the Holy Spirit is guaranteeing our inheritance so
significant to contrast a works-based faith?
Follow Up: How does this impact your day-to-day decisions?
personal application / reflection
In this section, “to the praise of his glorious
grace/glory” is mentioned three times
(verses 6,12,14). Take some time to take
inventory of your life to find areas in which
you can praise God for His glorious grace
in your life. If you are indeed in Christ, the
truths we studied this week are reason
enough. But if we look pause and look hard
enough, we will be able to find many more
reasons to praise God.
Praise God from Whom all blessings flow
Praise Him, all creatures here below
Praise Him above, ye heavenly host
Praise Father, Son and Holy Ghost
- Words written by Thomas Ken in 1674,
sung since then by Christians praising and
thanking God for His work.
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EPHESIANS 1:7-14
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3
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3
Family Discussion
Q. The main character in a book
is the main person in the story
or the person of which the story
is about. Who are some of your
favorite main characters? Who is
the main character in the Bible?
Wow Words/Big Ideas
Review grace from Week 1.
“In Christ” – is a position, like “in the middle” or “in the
playroom.” It tells us that we are part of God’s story. The Bible is
not about us; we are not the main character.
God rescues sinners (you and me) not because we are good,
but because He is good. We do not deserve anything apart from
death. Our rescue is not of our own doing, not even a little bit.
Redemption – the act of “buying out.” Specifically used regarding
the purchase of a person’s freedom.
Imagine you are a slave or a captive that is being held
hostage. You can either: free yourself/escape, have someone
rescue you, or have someone pay a ransom for you.
We are dead in sin—we can do nothing to free ourselves or
escape (because we’re “dead,” remember?) But Jesus rescued
us and paid a ransom for us by dying on the cross. The price
paid was very costly—it was Jesus’ life. His own blood was
shed for us. Though Jesus had no sin, He died for our sins.
Seals from the ancient world were commonly used to show
ownership over a person’s possessions. We are marked by God’s
seal but not in a physical way. God has given us the gi of the Holy
Spirit to show that we belong to Him and as a “down payment” of
our inheritance.
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Verses to Remember
For by grace you have been saved through faith. And this is
not your own doing; it is the gi of God, not a result of works,
so that no one may boast. Ephesians 2:8-9
going deeper
Ephesians is a book about God’s love. Because of God’s love for
us, we can be redeemed. The benefits of redemption include
eternal life (
Revelation 5:9-10), forgiveness of sins (Ephesians
1:7
), righteousness (Romans 5:17), adoption into God’s family
(
Galatians 4:5), deliverance from sin’s hold (Titus 2:14; 1 Peter
1:14-18
), peace with God (Colossians 1:18-20), and the Holy Spirit
coming to live in our hearts (
1 Corinthians 6:19-20).
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EPHESIANS 1:7-14
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Introduction
To pray over each other as
brothers and sisters in Christ
is an amazing gi given to
us by God. Paul uses this
section of his letter to the
church in Ephesus to pray and
give thanks for their faith in
Christ and their love for all
the saints. As Paul prays for
them, he is simultaneously
reminding them not to forget
truths about who God is and
what the Lord Jesus has done.
This is not just an earthly
reality but a cosmic-level
paradigm shi. Paul’s focus
is being genuinely grateful for the faith that his brothers and sisters have in
Jesus. This gratefulness is also a showing of Paul’s gratitude of the Gospel. The
example we must follow is to pray for each other that we would receive a spirit
of wisdom and a revelation in the knowledge of God (Ephesians 1:17).
MAIN IDEA
Pray for one another to live fully under the Lordship of Jesus.
Conversation Starter
Q. Paul tells the Ephesians that he remembers them in his prayers. Who is that
you remember and pray for regularly?
Read & Discuss
READ EPHESIANS 1:15-23
Q. In your own words, summarize what Paul is praying for the Ephesians to
experience.
Follow Up: Do you regularly pray for similar things? Why or why not?
SPIRIT OF WISDOM & REVELATION
EPHESIANS 1:15-23
WEEK
4
A chief object
of all prayer
is to bring
us to God.
P. T. Forsyth,
The Soul of Prayer
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Ephesians 1:15-23
Thanksgiving and Prayer
15
For this reason, because I have
heard of your faith in the Lord Jesus
and your love toward all the saints,
16
I do not cease to give thanks
for you, remembering you in my
prayers,
17
that the God of our Lord
Jesus Christ, the Father of glory,
may give you the Spirit of wisdom
and of revelation in the knowledge
of him,
18
having the eyes of your
hearts enlightened, that you may
know what is the hope to which
he has called you, what are the
riches of his glorious inheritance
in the saints,
19
and what is the
immeasurable greatness of his
power toward us who believe,
according to the working of his
great might
20
that he worked in
Christ when he raised him from the
dead and seated him at his right
hand in the heavenly places,
21
far
above all rule and authority and
power and dominion, and above
every name that is named, not only
in this age but also in the one to
come.
22
And he put all things under
his feet and gave him as head over
all things to the church,
23
which is
his body, the fullness of him who
fills all in all.
Follow Up: One of the main
dierences may be the person for
which we are praying. How oen do
you pray for other people compared
to simply for yourself and immediate
family?
Follow Up: How might we improve in
this?
Q. Paul is praying that the Ephesians
may increase in their intimacy with
and knowledge of Christ. How is your
relationship with Jesus? Do you know
Him better than you did a year ago?
Follow Up: Paul asks God to reveal
more of himself in wisdom—to give
knowledge that will change believers
through the power of the Gospel.
What does Paul mean when he uses
the figure of speech “eyes of the heart
to be enlightened”?
Follow Up: Paul speaks the idea of
hope. How would you define biblical
hope? Hint: Biblical hope – an earnest
anticipation based on, and as a result
of, faith; the confident expectation of
good to come based in the integrity of
God, that He will fulfill every promise
He has given.
Follow Up: What is the hope in which
God has called us to?
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EPHESIANS 1:15-23
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4
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EPHESIANS 1:15-23
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4
Follow Up: How confident are you
today in this? Doubtful? Confident?
Somewhere in-between?
Q. Look at the words “power” and
“might” in verse 19. Think of the
most awesome display of power you
have ever seen (tornado/earthquake/
machinery/athletic feat?). What is
Paul saying that is even mightier and
more powerful than that? (Hint: The
Resurrection.)
Follow Up: Is that how you think of the
resurrectionthe most powerful and
mighty act of all time?
Q. What does this passage say about
the exaltation of Jesus? What is it
exactly?
Follow Up: How might living with this awareness aect our lives?
Q. How is Paul’s view of the church dierent from the view taken by most
Christians today?
Follow Up: What would happen if we took a high view of the church?
personal application / reflection
Carefully re-read and pray this prayer alongside the Apostle Paul. In this
prayer, we find God’s power. It is at work in us and through us. Do not
simply pray this for yourself, your spouse, kids, etc. Pray this for your life
group and for our church. Consider taking time this week to memorize
this prayer to be one you pray for the remainder of our time in our study of
Ephesians.
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4
Family Discussion
Q. Why do we pray?
Q. Discuss a few of the dierent
types of prayers: supplication
(requesting), confession,
thanksgiving, worship, and
intercession (praying for others).
Wow Words/Big Ideas
Review adopted and the idea of inheritance from Week 2.
Hope: Because of our belief and trust in God, we can eagerly
expect good to come based on the sureness that God will fulfill
every promise He has given.
In addition to giving thanks, we should pray to know God better,
understand/appreciate our inheritance from God, and recognize
the enormous power of God that is at work in our lives.
God is the most powerful! He defeated death. Jesus died for our
sins, but He didn’t stay dead. Because of God’s power, Jesus rose
from the dead without it. The sin stayed dead, but Jesus did not.
Jesus was then elevated to God’s right hand, which is not a place.
It’s a way of describing a position of power and favor. (Exodus
15:6 and Psalm 80:17). Jesus has ruling authority over everything,
including the church.
Going Deeper
Ephesians is a book about God’s love—God’s love for all people.
Jesus died on the cross for all people. No longer is there a
separation between God and people or between people; more
specifically, Jews and Gentiles (
Ephesians 3:1-11).
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EPHESIANS 1:15-23
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4
Verses to Remember
For by grace you have been saved through faith. And this is
not your own doing; it is the gi of God, not a result of works,
so that no one may boast. Ephesians 2:8-9
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EPHESIANS 1:15-23
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BY GRACE THROUGH FAITH
EPHESIANS 2:1-10
WEEK
5
Introduction
Let’s face it. One of the main reasons we don’t immerse ourselves in the
Scriptures is oen because we don’t necessarily like the picture that it paints of
us sometimes. Sure, the Bible can be hard to understand at points, but that’s
not typically what keeps us from coming back. It’s when its message is crystal
clear about us. This is one of those weeks that starts with a brutally honest
depiction of man, yet ends with a beautiful promise. All this hinges on two great
words: But God.
MAIN IDEA
God helps the hopeless.
Conversation Starter
Q. Can you think of a time when you hoped for something to happen, only to be
disappointed? What happened? How did you cope with it?
Read & Discuss
READ EPHESIANS 2:1-3
Q. Paul paints a very bleak, hopeless picture.
Don’t rush ahead to verse 4, but allow the
tension of the problem to build. Pay attention
to the words dead, trespasses, sin, walked,
following, disobedience, and wrath. What
other words or phrases stand out that
describe our situation? In these verses we are
clued into the very real spiritual battle waged
against us.
Q. What is the problem being addressed in
verses 1-3?
Q. What is sin? (Check out the Bible Project
video on the words sin, transgression, and
iniquity) Why does understanding sin matter?
“God has surely promised
His grace to the humbled:
that is, to those who mourn
over and despair of them-
selves. But a man cannot
be thoroughly humbled
till he realizes that his
salvation is utterly beyond
his own powers, counsels,
eorts, will and works, and
depends absolutely on
the will, counsel, pleasure
and work of Another—God
alone.
—Martin Luther,
The Bondage of the Will
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EPHESIANS 2:1-10
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5
Ephesians 2:1-10
By Grace Through Faith
2
And you were dead in the
trespasses and sins
2
in which
you once walked, following the
course of this world, following the
prince of the power of the air, the
spirit that is now at work in the sons
of disobedience—
3
among whom
we all once lived in the passions of
our flesh, carrying out the desires of
the body and the mind, and were by
nature children of wrath, like the rest
of mankind.
4
But God, being rich in mercy,
because of the great love with which
he loved us,
5
even when we were
dead in our trespasses, made us
alive together with Christ—by grace
you have been saved—
6
and raised
us up with him and seated us with
him in the heavenly places in Christ
Jesus,
7
so that in the coming ages
he might show the immeasurable
riches of his grace in kindness
toward us in Christ Jesus.
8
For by
grace you have been saved through
faith. And this is not your own doing;
it is the gi of God,
9
not a result of
works, so that no one may boast.
10
For we are his workmanship, created
in Christ Jesus for good works, which
God prepared beforehand, that we
should walk in them.
Q. What hope do dead things have
for coming back to life? What do they
need for that to happen?
Q. “By nature” means we were born
into sin. We are fallen by nature,
not born good and then learn to
sin (Psalm 51:5). How does this
impact the way you view yourself?
Why does it matter? Hint: If we are
born good, we become a victim
of our circumstances and are not
responsible for the wrong we do.
READ EPHESIANS 2:4-9
“But God”there is good news!
Just when we thought there was no
hope! In Christ, we are given new life
spiritually in this age (regeneration)
and we look forward to new physical
bodies when Christ returns (future
resurrection). God’s grace saves us
and gives us hope beyond the here
and now.
Q. Why did God act?
Q. What does this reveal about
God? Look at verse 7. How should
we respond to God showing us the
“immeasurable riches of his grace in
kindness” we witness in Christ?
Q. Why is a correct understanding of
grace and faith as gis from God so
foundational to the Christian faith?
Does this truth comfort or challenge
you? Why?
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READ EPHESIANS 2:10
We are God’s workmanship; He
created us for a purpose, to do
something God has always had
in mind. Think for a moment how
silly it would be if something you
created turned to you and asked,
“Why did you make me like this?”
(Romans 9:21, Isaiah 45:9-10), and
o it went to do what it wanted,
rather than what it was designed
for. When we do not live according
to God’s purpose, this silly example
is exactly what we are doing.
Q. Do you struggle to accept that
you are God’s workmanship,
created to do what He purposes?
How does free will fit into this
idea?
Q. What are the good works God
has prepared for us to do? How do
you know? Remember, it isn’t our
works that save us, but that we are
compelled by the grace of God to
respond to it (James 2:14-26).
personal application / reflection
As you pray, take time to marvel at God’s plan, His sovereignty, His
mercy, that He saved us from death, making us alive with Christ, and the
immeasurable riches of His grace He has shown us in kindness through
Jesus Christ. Rejoice that it is not our doing, but God has done it, in His
perfect power and might. How will you take this knowledge with you this
week, and who do you need to share it with?
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EPHESIANS 2:1-10
WEEK
5
Family Discussion
Brainstorm and make a list
of two words (or two-word
phrases) that when said, could
change things. For example, if
I’m having a bad day, these two
words “Some flowers?” or “Go
out?” changes my perspective
on my day. Or, when considering on attending an event, “Free
admission” would change things and sway me in favor of going.
Wow Words/Big Ideas
Review grace from Week 1, adoption and the idea of inheritance
from Week 2, and redemption from Week 3.
Every one of us (yes, you, and me too) are rotten sinners.
Sin has separated us from God and because of that, we are
spiritually dead.
God sent His Son to die for our sins when He could just leave
us in our sins, destined to spend all of forever separated from
Him. And then, two words that change everything—“but
God.But God sent His Son, Jesus. Even though we were
sinners, Jesus (who had no sin) died for us.
We cannot do anything to earn favor with God. Our rescue from
sin is based on
Jesus’ work, not ours.
While we cannot do any good work to earn our rescue from
sin, aer we are part of God’s family, we do works out of a
heart of gratitude for all that Jesus has done for us.
How do we get rescued? How do we get to be part of God’s family?
It’s so simple—we just believe that Jesus is who He said He is, and
trust that He can save us.
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EPHESIANS 2:1-10
WEEK
5
Verses to Remember
For by grace you have been saved through faith. And this is
not your own doing; it is the gi of God, not a result of works,
so that no one may boast. Ephesians 2:8-9
Going Deeper
Ephesians is a book about God’s love demonstrated through the
Gospel.
The word gospel simply means good news.
There are three important parts:
1. Jesus died for our sins.
2. He was buried.
3. He rose from the dead on the third day.
This is important because this allows us to come close to God, if
we believe (1 Corinthians 15:3-4).
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EPHESIANS 2:11-22
WEEK
6
Introduction
Can two at opposition really become one? Judging by the world around us,
this is still a problem today. People oen do not trust or choose to fear those
who don’t look, act, or think like them. The previous section of Scripture dealt
with how we can move from spiritually dead to spiritually alive and reconciled
back to God through the grace of God. Paul continues his thought to instruct his
audience that we have been reconciled to others as well through the blood of
Christ; even though his audience includes those who have been hostile towards
one another since Genesis 15.
MAIN IDEA
It is through Christ’s blood that we can be spiritually united to form one family.
Ephesians 2:11-22
One In Christ
11
Therefore remember that at one time you Gentiles in the flesh, called “the
uncircumcision” by what is called the circumcision, which is made in the flesh by
hands—
12
remember that you were at that time separated from Christ, alienated
from the commonwealth of Israel and strangers to the covenants of promise,
having no hope and without God in the world.
13
But now in Christ Jesus you who
once were far o have been brought near by the blood of Christ.
14
For he himself
is our peace, who has made us both one and has broken down in his flesh the
dividing wall of hostility
15
by abolishing the law of commandments expressed
in ordinances, that he might create in himself one new man in place of the two,
so making peace,
16
and might reconcile us both to God in one body through the
cross, thereby killing the hostility.
17
And he came and preached peace to you who
were far o and peace to those who were near.
18
For through him we both have
access in one Spirit to the Father.
19
So then you are no longer strangers and aliens,
but you are fellow citizens with the saints and members of the household of God,
20
built on the foundation of the apostles and prophets, Christ Jesus himself being
the cornerstone,
21
in whom the whole structure, being joined together, grows
into a holy temple in the Lord.
22
In him you also are being built together into a
dwelling place for God by the Spirit.
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6
Conversation Starter
Q. What is your biggest pet peeve? What if someone with that pet peeve became
a huge part of your life? How would you get past your dierences?
Read & Discuss
READ EPHESIANS 2:11-12
Q. Why do you think Paul points out to his audience that they are “Gentiles in
the flesh”? What implications does this have for us today?
Q. Paul uses circumcision to draw up imagery that would take his audience
back to Genesis 17. What are the three adjectives of the “uncircumcised” found
in verse 12?
Follow Up: Compare and contrast this list with the one in Ephesians 2:1-4.
“The key thought of Ephesians
is the gathering together of all
things in Jesus Christ. Christ is
the center in whom all things
unite, and the bond who unites
all things. In nature as it is
without Christ there is nothing
but disunity and disharmony
The world, as we see it without
Christ, is a divided, disunited,
fragmented world...this dis-
unity can only become a unity,
and this disharmony can only
become a harmony, when all
things and all men and all
powers in heaven and earth are
united in Christ.
William Barclay
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Q. In our cultural landscape, which of
these descriptors is the hardest for an
unbeliever to understand? Which is the
hardest to communicate?
READ EPHESIANS 2:4 AND 2:13
Q. In Scripture, the word “but” is oen
followed with a message of hope. In
verses 4 and 13, what is the reality of
someone who has put their faith in
Jesus?
READ EPHESIANS 2:14-17
Q. How does Jesus’ flesh break down
the “dividing wall of hostility”? Hint:
Look at Matthew 27:51.
Q. Are “Peace” and “One” connected?
How should this reflect in the way
that Christ-followers engage with one
another? How can you seek aer peace
with someone who doesn’t think or act
like you?
READ EPHESIANS 2:18-22
Q. In verse 18, who is the “him” and
what did He give? How does this verse
instruct our understanding of the Holy
Spirit’s role? What is our contribution to
the truth found here?
Q. In this section, Paul is speaking
directly to the Gentile converts,
ensuring them of their adoption into
the family of God. What is Paul pushing
against in the declaration that he
makes in verses 19-20?
Peace
World peace is something joked
about in pageant competitions
and sought aer by world
leaders. Anyone raising little
kids knows that peace is hard
to experience within the home.
How will we ever experience
peace this side of heaven?
A 21st Century reading of
Ephesians 2:11-22 might paint
Paul as naïve to think that peace
within the body of Christ is
attainable. However, Scripture
speaks of peace as a virtue
attainable through Jesus Christ.
Consider how these passages
should instruct the way that you
experience and extend peace:
Proverbs 14:30; John 14:27;
Galatians 5:22; Philippians 4:7;
Colossians 1:20.
Now may the Lord of peace
himself give you peace at all
times and in every way. The
Lord be with all of you.
2 Thessalonians 3:16
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Q. Verses 21 and 22 talk about a structure that is being built. Who is at work
constructing? What key word describes the construction of this structure?
Q. As the structure is being craed “together”, what should it begin to look like?
Follow up: How can your words and actions begin to reflect this collective
dwelling place that the Holy Spirit is building?
personal application / reflection
Paul directs his audience to recognize that the community of God is
available through Jesus’ death on the cross. As disciples of Jesus, we
are being built into a community and joined together through the Holy
Spirit. When the community of God focuses on the one thing that unites
us, the things that divide ought to become less significant. No physical
appearance, attribute, skill, no like-minded thinking, or socio-economic
status will ever completely bring unity. Peace and unity can only be found
in the Holy Spirit oered through the blood of Jesus.
Where have you been looking for unity in God’s family?
In what ways are your words and actions contributing towards the
peace that can be found in God’s family?
In what way are your words and actions detracting from the peace that
can be found in God’s family?
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6
Family Discussion
Discuss the huge divide
between Jews and Gentiles in
ancient times. Jewish people
were prideful of their faith
and traditions, thinking these
elevated them above everyone
else. Gentiles were prideful for
trusting in their achievements, power, or position.
Wow Words/Big Ideas
Review grace and peace from Week 1.
God has always called His people to remember their past to help
them appreciate even more all that He has done for them and the
greatness of His grace, mercy, and love.
But now: Another two words that change everything:
No longer are sacrifices or other rituals necessary to be forgiven
or to be close to God. Jesus brought an end to this by His death
on the cross as the ultimate sacrifice. Anyone has access to God
no matter their race, social status, denomination, or any other
earthly division.
We have peace: 1) with God and 2) with each other.
Not only do believers have access to God and the wall of
hostility between groups has been torn down, believers are
called together to one body—the Church.
The Church
Fellow citizens of a Kingdomnot an individual matter, but a
community experience; joining with other believers.
Members of a familya household is a deeper level of
belonging; strong and supportive relationships.
A templeGod’s presence in believers.
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Verses to Remember
For by grace you have been saved through faith. And this is
not your own doing; it is the gi of God, not a result of works,
so that no one may boast. Ephesians 2:8-9
Going Deeper
Ephesians is a book about God’s love—God’s love for all people.
Jesus died on the cross for all people. No longer is there a
separation between God and people or between people; more
specifically, Jews and Gentiles (Ephesians 3:1-11).
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Introduction
In chapter 2, Paul began to introduce the idea of the mystery of the Gospel; that
God is making a new group of people through Jesus' death on the cross. At the
beginning of chapter 3, it appears that Paul attempts to move on to pray, yet is
overwhelmed and returns to further expound upon the mystery of the Gospel.
John Stott remarks:
“[I]n Christianity there are no esoteric (obscure) ‘mysteries’
reserved for a spiritual elite. On the contrary, the Christian
‘mysteries’ are truths which, although beyond human
discovery, have been revealed by God and so now belong
openly to the whole church. More simply, mystērion [Greek
word for mystery] is a truth hitherto hidden from human
knowledge or understanding but now disclosed by the
revelation of God”.
Just as Paul was commissioned to proclaim this mystery, the Church today is
also called to make it know, with boldness and confidence that comes from
faith in Jesus.
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MAIN IDEA
Paul was appointed by God to proclaim the mysteries of God that united both
Jews and Gentiles together in Christ.
Conversation Starter
Q. Is there something that seemed like a mystery to you when you were
younger, that you know and understand now that you're older?
Read & Discuss
READ EPHESIANS 3:1-6
Q. Why does Paul refer to himself as “a prisoner of Christ Jesus”? What might a
life lived like this look like?
Ephesians 3:1-11
The Mystery of the Gospel Revealed
3
For this reason I, Paul, a prisoner of Christ Jesus on behalf of you Gentiles
2
assuming that you have heard of the stewardship of God's grace that was
given to me for you,
3
how the mystery was made known to me by revelation,
as I have written briefly.
4
When you read this, you can perceive my insight into
the mystery of Christ,
5
which was not made known to the sons of men in other
generations as it has now been revealed to his holy apostles and prophets by the
Spirit.
6
This mystery is that the Gentiles are fellow heirs, members of the same
body, and partakers of the promise in Christ Jesus through the gospel.
7
Of this gospel I was made a minister according to the gi of God's grace, which
was given me by the working of his power.
8
To me, though I am the very least of
all the saints, this grace was given, to preach to the Gentiles the unsearchable
riches of Christ,
9
and to bring to light for everyone what is the plan of the
mystery hidden for ages in God, who created all things,
10
so that through the
church the manifold wisdom of God might now be made known to the rulers and
authorities in the heavenly places.
11
This was according to the eternal purpose
that he has realized in Christ Jesus our Lord,
12
in whom we have boldness and
access with confidence through our faith in him.
13
So I ask you not to lose heart
over what I am suering for you, which is your glory.
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Q. Have you ever considered the fact that you are a steward of God’s grace? Are
you being a good or bad steward of the grace that you have received and are
commanded to extend to others? Why?
Q. What is the mystery that Paul is talking about in this section?
Q. The letters to the early churches (and last weeks study) show that there
was a division between Jew and Gentile converts to Christianity. As Paul is
illuminating the root of the issue here, the Jewish converts probably wondered,
“Why the Gentiles, God?” Describe a time where you have asked, “Why me; why
now, God?”
READ EPHESIANS 3:7-13
Q. What (or who) qualified Paul to preach to the Gentiles?
Q. What comes to mind when you read the phrase “the unsearchable riches of
Christ”?
Follow Up: How do you explain the “unsearchable riches of Christ” to an
unbeliever?
Q. Paul says in verse 9 that it is his responsibility to illuminate and make known
the mystery that has been hidden for ages. Through your own personal study,
what is one mystery that God has illuminated in your life?
Follow Up: Do you see yourself as having the same responsibility?
Q. According to verse 12, Paul says that believers have “boldness and access
with confidence.” How bold and confident do you feel about your faith?
Follow Up: How bold and confident do you feel about the mission God has
called us to?
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personal application / reflection
Paul is urging the Church to be…the Church. Christ is still at work building
His Church. He is doing it through the mysteries revealed to individual
believers through His Word. Briefly review the entire passage one more
time. What privileges and responsibilities does Ephesians 3:1-13 give
to the Church? How are we to respond to the mysteries that have been
revealed in our lives? What is one way we can pray for Christ’s mystery to
be revealed to others through your words and actions?
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Family Discussion
Some riches can be calculated;
money, silver, gold, property.
Name some things that are
priceless.
Wow Words/Big Ideas
Mystery: In this instance, God’s
plan that had not been revealed until Jesus.
Part of God’s plan had been revealed from the beginning:
God would send the Messiah. The Jewish people, as God’s
chosen people, had been waiting thousands of years for this
Messiah’s rescue.
What was not known was the Messiah in God’s plan would
come for all people. Believers—no matter if they are Gentiles
or Jews would be equal partners, and that all believers are co-
heirs with Jesus. (Romans 8:17, Galatians 3:29, 4:7)
God planned to have Jews and Gentiles comprise one body—
the church.
This union of Jews and Gentiles, which was so astonishing
to all who saw it, is a living example of the gospel; that God
accepts all who believe.
Believers not only have the
right to approach God, but they can
approach Him with
confidence and boldness, much as one would
with a close friend.
Because of Jesus, we can enter directly into God’s presence
through prayer.
We are welcomed with open arms because we are part of
God’s family—we are God’s children.
fAmily
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Verses to Remember
For by grace you have been saved through faith. And this is
not your own doing; it is the gi of God, not a result of works,
so that no one may boast.
Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one
another, as God in Christ forgave you.
Ephesians 2:8-9, 4:32
Going Deeper
Ephesians is a book about God’s love reflected in a believer’s life.
Entry to the Kingdom of God is a priceless gi. The unsearchable
riches of Christ can be seen in the heart of His followers (Matthew
13:44-46).
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EPHESIANS 3:14-21
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Introduction
In this passage, Paul prays for the believers to have a deep understanding of
God’s power in their lives. Paul’s main request is for the Spirit to give strength to
the believer to comprehend the incomprehensible love of God. When His love
is planted in our hearts, we can grow to maturity. How much of your heart does
Jesus live in? What in your life is mainly controlled by sinful ideas, unhealthy
influences, and self-centeredness? Maturity in Christ is dependent on being
filled with His loving and powerful presence, which helps us oppose sin and
nurtures a selfless love.
MAIN IDEA
Believers may know the dimensions of the knowledge-surpassing love of Christ
in us and that we may know Him more and more.
Conversation Starter
Q. We’ve all heard the adage, “Measure twice and cut once.” Think of a time that
you didn’t follow the rule; or you did follow the rule and it still didn’t work. What
happened?
Read & Discuss
READ EPHESIANS 3:14-15
Q. What is Paul’s posture in prayer?
Follow Up: Who does he kneel to? What does bowing symbolize?
Q. What does “before” connotate regarding the person kneeling and the Father?
Hint: Face-to-face implies what kind of relationship?
READ EPHESIANS 3:16-19
Q. The content of Paul’s prayer is listed in three items (verses 16, 17, 18-19).
What are they?
1. EPHESIANS 3:16—STRENGTH OF SPIRIT
Q. We have an inner being (as referred to in verse 16), but theres another part of
ourselves—what is it? Hint: 2 Corinthians 4:16 tells us.
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Prayer for Spiritual Strength
14
For this reason I bow my knees before the Father,
15
from whom every family in
heaven and on earth is named,
16
that according to the riches of his glory he may
grant you to be strengthened with power through his Spirit in your inner being,
17
so that Christ may dwell in your hearts through faith—that you, being rooted and
grounded in love,
18
may have strength to comprehend with all the saints what is
the breadth and length and height and depth,
19
and to know the love of Christ that
surpasses knowledge, that you may be filled with all the fullness of God.
20
Now to him who is able to do far more abundantly than all that we ask or think,
according to the power at work within us,
21
to him be glory in the church and in
Christ Jesus throughout all generations, forever and ever. Amen.
Follow Up: What does 2 Corinthians 4:16 tell us is happening to each “being” or
“man?
Follow Up: The inner man is wasting away and Paul prays for strength for the
inner man, knowing that we cannot resist evil influences in our own strength.
But we should not be discouraged. What hope do 2 Corinthians 4:16 and
Colossians 3:9-10 give us?
2. EPHESIANS 3:17—INDWELLING OF CHRIST
For those who like grammar, this passage uses the present continuous tense,
meaning the progressive character of Christ’s indwelling. In other words,
Christ’s indwelling is not static, but a maintained experience.
Q. We enter a relationship with Christ by faith; we are “in Christ.” What does
Christ’s indwelling mean? Hint: Look up Galatians 2:20 and 2 Corinthians 13:5.
Follow Up: John 15:5 tells us two things about Christ’s indwelling. One is that it
is not a temporary, but permanent by the means of whom?
Follow Up: What is the result of Christ’s indwelling?
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3. EPHESIANS 3:18-19FULLNESS OF GOD
Some translations use the word “grasp” in verse 18. While grasp can mean “to
grip or hold,” in this case it refers to “comprehend” or “perceive.
Q. Paul uses four measurements in verse 18. What are they?
Follow Up: Scholars disagree on what the measurements refer to—God’s love or
God’s power (or both). What do you think? Why?
Q. What is Paul trying to communicate about the love of God in verse 19?
Q. Part of Paul’s prayer is that the believers may be filled with all the fullness of
God. What is the fulfillment God intends for man in Ephesians 4:13? Hint: How is
maturity measured?
Follow Up: A child has full value but does not have full maturity. How does this
statement give us hope?
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personal application / reflection
Paul concludes with an impassioned outpouring of praise in a doxology
(Ephesians 3:20-21). God’s copious power is again highlighted in this
conclusion. Do we underestimate the power at work within us?
The love of God is immeasurable. A hymn from my childhood illustrates
this concept. As you read through the hymn, reflect on whether you put
limits on God’s love for you. Do you know God’s love? We do not know
Christ until we know the love of Christ that cannot be fully known.
The Love of God Is Greater Far
The love of God is greater far
Than tongue or pen can ever tell.
It goes beyond the highest star
And reaches to the lowest hell.
Could we with ink the ocean fill,
And were the skies of parchment made;
Were every stalk on earth a quill,
And every man a scribe by trade;
To write the love of God above
Would drain the ocean dry;
Nor could the scroll contain the whole,
Though stretched from sky to sky.
O love of God, how rich and pure!
How measureless and strong!
It shall forevermore endure—
The saints’ and angels’ song.
Words & Music by Frederick Martin Lehman (1868-1953).
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Family Discussion
Think of something you love.
How would you describe that
love? How would you measure it?
Wow Words/Big Ideas
The power of God in our lives
is the same power that raised
Jesus from the dead. It now resides in us.
Indwelling: We are in Christ, but what’s more amazing is that
Christ is in us!
Rooted and grounded:
Like a tree, the believer who is rooted in God’s love is made
strong.
Like the foundation’s cornerstone of a building that holds the
whole structure together, Jesus provides a solid base for the
believer.
Review
mystery from Week 7.
The idea that all people are equal in God is mystifying; but
even more mystifying is how big the love of God is for us.
God’s love for us is too large to even measure:
Wide enough to reach the whole world and beyond.
Long enough to stretch from eternity to eternity.
High enough to raise both Jews and Gentiles to heavenly
places in Jesus.
Deep enough to rescue people from sin’s rottenness and even
from the grip of Satan.
The more we understand of the love of God, the more we will
be filled with all the fullness of God.
fAmily
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Verse to Remember
Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one
another, as God in Christ forgave you. Ephesians 4:32
GOING DEEPER
Ephesians is a book about God’s love. The more you understand
God’s love, the more you will: experience His presence and take on
His character (including suering). (Romans 8:17)
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UNITY
EPHESIANS 4:1-16
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9
Introduction
In Ephesians 1-3 ,we learned of God's work of redemption. All of this was
according to His plan, reconciling sinful men and women back to Himself. Yet,
this act is not done in isolation. God calls all His people into a new community,
a new people, a new family in Christ. Aer three chapters of doctrine, Paul
transitions into addressing everyday practical implications of the Gospel. Here
starts the second half of the letter that teaches us how to live in light of God's
glorious grace.
MAIN IDEA
Paul exhorts us to maintain unity and grow into spiritual maturity.
Conversation Starter
Q. What is the best group or team you have ever been a part of? What made it
such a great experience?
Read & Discuss
READ EPHESIANS 4:1-3
Q. “Therefore” in verse 1 is a major “therefore" in all of Scripture. It’s a
“therefore” that refers back to everything Paul has covered in chapters 1–3.
Given all that Paul has said about the riches of the Gospel of Christ and the glory
of God, Paul uses all that truth to set up the first major imperative (command)
of the book.
Q. Before we get to Paul's command, let’s briefly take a second to recap the
first part of Ephesians. Paul continues to use the term "called" to describe
something in which God has done in this chapter (verses 1 and 4). Considering
what we've learned so far in the book of Ephesians, how would you describe
this calling? Hint: See Ephesians 1:18; 2:10; and 3:6.
Q. Paul commands his readers to live a life worthy of their calling and then lists
some characteristics. What are they? What type of person comes to mind as you
read over this list? Who have you witnessed to a good example of this?
Q. How do the qualities listed in verses 2-3 display a mature faith?
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Unity in the Body of Christ
4
I therefore, a prisoner for the Lord, urge you to walk in a manner worthy of
the calling to which you have been called,
2
with all humility and gentleness,
with patience, bearing with one another in love,
3
eager to maintain the unity of
the Spirit in the bond of peace.
4
There is one body and one Spirit—just as you
were called to the one hope that belongs to your call—
5
one Lord, one faith, one
baptism,
6
one God and Father of all, who is over all and through all and in all.
7
But grace was given to each one of us according to the measure of Christ's gi.
8
Therefore it says,
“When he ascended on high he led a host of captives,
and he gave gis to men.
9
(In saying, “He ascended,” what does it mean but that he had also descended into
the lower regions, the earth?
10
He who descended is the one who also ascended far
above all the heavens, that he might fill all things.)
11
And he gave the apostles, the
prophets, the evangelists, the shepherds[c] and teachers,
12
to equip the saints for
the work of ministry, for building up the body of Christ,
13
until we all attain to the
unity of the faith and of the knowledge of the Son of God, to mature manhood,[e]
to the measure of the stature of the fullness of Christ,
14
so that we may no longer
be children, tossed to and fro by the waves and carried about by every wind of
doctrine, by human cunning, by crainess in deceitful schemes.
15
Rather, speaking
the truth in love, we are to grow up in every way into him who is the head, into
Christ,
16
from whom the whole body, joined and held together by every joint with
which it is equipped, when each part is working properly, makes the body grow so
that it builds itself up in love.
Follow Up: What happens when Christians embody and live out these
characteristics?
Follow Up: From the list of behaviors to model and exhibit in our everyday lives,
which one(s) do you struggle with the most?
Follow Up: How would you ask God to help you grow in this area?
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READ EPHESIANS 4:4-6
Q. Why does Christian unity necessitate agreement on “one body and one Spirit,
one Lord, one faith, one baptism, one God and Father of all”? What might this
say about the importance of doctrine, our ability to understand it, and unity?
Q. Within this section, Paul lays out three ways in which we are united: by a
divine calling (verse 1), by Christlike conduct (verses 2-3), and by our Gospel
confession (verses 4-6). Why are each of these components required for us to
experience unity? What happens if one of these three pieces is missing?
Q. Paul stresses the importance of unity within the local church in this passage.
Why is this so important? What message does a unified church declare to an
unbelieving world? What message does a fragmented church send to a skeptical
world?
READ EPHESIANS 4:7-16
While unity means a oneness of mind and heart, it does not mean sameness.
While Christians are to experience and strive aer unity, we are to do so by using
the diverse gis and abilities God has blessed each of us with.
Q. In these verses, Paul highlights Christ’s generosity and authority. Christ Jesus
died, rose, and ascended into heaven as the victorious King with all authority
and gave gis to His people, displaying extravagant generosity. What is the
relationship between the ascension of Jesus and the distribution of spiritual
gis to believers? Hint: Look at Paul's use of Psalm 68.
Q. Jesus has given every believer
gis through the Spirit, as well as
the corporate body of believers.
For what purpose? Hint: See
verses 12 and 13.
Q. How does Paul describe
the mature church in these
verses? What can you do to help
your church grow in spiritual
maturity?
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personal application / reflection
The Apostles’ Creed is a well-known and widely used summary of what
Christians believe. The Apostles’ Creed appeared in various forms during the
early centuries of the church, but it was standardized by about A.D. 700 in
Latin. Since then, Christians have joined their voices together in reciting this
creed, to not only re-airm what they believe, but also to help others learn
and remain true to the teachings of the Bible. Paul. in this passage, calls for
unity in the believers’ calling, behavior, and belief. Take time either reciting
the Apostles Creed together as a sign of unity or personally studying it this
week, finding where each statement of faith is rooted within Scripture.
The Apostles' Creed
I believe in God, the Father almighty,
creator of heaven and earth.
I believe in Jesus Christ, his only Son, our Lord,
who was conceived by the Holy Spirit
and born of the virgin Mary.
He suered under Pontius Pilate,
was crucified, died, and was buried;
he descended to hell.
The third day he rose again from the dead.
He ascended to heaven
and is seated at the right hand of God the Father almighty.
From there he will come to judge the living and the dead.
I believe in the Holy Spirit,
the holy catholic* church,
the communion of saints,
the forgiveness of sins,
the resurrection of the body,
and the life everlasting. Amen.
* the word catholic means “general, universal, concerning the whole” and does not refer exclusively to the Roman
Catholic Church. Some may substitute the term "catholic" with "Christian" or "universal".
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Family Discussion
Q. What are some things you
need to do and you need to
communicate with your partner
to make a three-legged race
successful?
Wow Words/Big Ideas
Review Church from Week 6.
Unity: A oneness of mind and heart. Unity does not mean
uniformity. (See gis below.)
Believers are disciples who are called to make other disciples.
They are also called to serve others out of a heart of gratitude for
all that Jesus has done for them. They are called to live a life that
reflects Jesus.
The church is where disciples meet with other disciples to learn
more about Jesus.
God wants His people to live together in harmony—meaning
believers live and work together in a unity that flows out of
obeying Bible truths and Jesus-centered living.
Believers must have humility, gentleness, patience,
forbearance (bearing with one another in love), and peace.
This is not always easy. Isn’t it nice to know you’re powered by
a supernatural source?
Believers should remember what unites them:
one body, one
Spirit, one hope, one Lord, one faith, one baptism, one God!
Imagine Jesus as the victorious king who has defeated his
enemies through His death on the cross and His resurrection. As
the victor, He now provides gis to His people (Psalm 68:18).
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These talents and gis grow and are to be used to serve one
another and for the church to work together.
The church is comparable to the human body. The head
provides direction and guidance to the body (this is Jesus).
But it is essential fwor every part of the body to do its job.
Not all the people do the same thing, but all are necessary.
We all have a part that adds to the work God wants us to do
together.
Going Deeper
Ephesians is a book about God’s love. Jesus was a living example
of God’s love as we are to be living example of His love (John
13:35).
Verse to Remember
Be kind to one another,
tenderhearted, forgiving
one another, as God in
Christ forgave you.
Ephesians 4:32
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Introduction
Oen when people consider the cost
of becoming a Christian, their minds
regularly go to "what I can't" or
"what I shouldn't" do anymore. Yet,
when one becomes a new creation in
Christ, it’s not simply stopping living
in a particular way, but beginning to
live in a completely new way. Paul
begins to tease out the areas in our
lives that should see renewal and
transformation as we have been
adopted into God's family and begin to
live in the new community He has set
apart for Himself.
MAIN IDEA
Believers are called to live out their
new identity in Christ by imitating God, by walking in love, light, and wisdom
with a lifestyle that is dierent from the world and dierent from their past.
Conversation Starter
Q. At dierent points in life, we experience an important event that radically
changes something about how we think, behave, or look at things. What is one
example of an event that had an impact on everything else in your life?
Read & Discuss
READ EPHESIANS 4:17-32
Q. Paul does not paint a pretty picture for those who do not have a relationship
with Jesus. In verses 17-19, what are some of the descriptions Paul gives? Can
you give some examples of what this may look like in your life?
Follow Up: How do you think someone who does not walk with God responds
to these descriptions?
Follow Up: How does that impact the way you would witness to unbelievers?
"The gospel is the dynamic for
all heart-change, life-change,
and social-change. Change won’t
happen through ‘trying harder’
but only through encountering
with the radical grace of God. We
do not 'get saved' by believing
in the gospel and then 'grow' by
trying hard to live according to
Biblical principles. Believing in
the gospel is not only way to meet
God, but also the way to grow into
him."
The Gospel – Key to Change
by Tim Keller
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The New Life
17
Now this I say and testify in the Lord, that you must no longer walk as the Gentiles
do, in the futility of their minds.
18
They are darkened in their understanding,
alienated from the life of God because of the ignorance that is in them, due to their
hardness of heart.
19
They have become callous and have given themselves up to
sensuality, greedy to practice every kind of impurity.
20
But that is not the way you
learned Christ!—
21
assuming that you have heard about him and were taught in
him, as the truth is in Jesus,
22
to put o your old self, which belongs to your former
manner of life and is corrupt through deceitful desires,
23
and to be renewed in the
spirit of your minds,
24
and to put on the new self, created aer the likeness of God
in true righteousness and holiness.
25
Therefore, having put away falsehood, let each one of you speak the truth with
his neighbor, for we are members one of another.
26
Be angry and do not sin; do
not let the sun go down on your anger,
27
and give no opportunity to the devil.
28
Let the thief no longer steal, but rather let him labor, doing honest work with his
own hands, so that he may have something to share with anyone in need.
29
Let
no corrupting talk come out of your mouths, but only such as is good for building
up, as fits the occasion, that it may give grace to those who hear.
30
And do not
grieve the Holy Spirit of God, by whom you were sealed for the day of redemption.
31
Let all bitterness and wrath and anger and clamor and slander be put away from
you, along with all malice.
32
Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one
another, as God in Christ forgave you.
Q. Paul says that the Ephesians had "learned Christ." Normally we learn details,
facts, or behaviors, but not a person. Do you think this phrasing from Paul was
unintentional? What is he trying to communicate here?
Q. Paul begins to draw a distinction between the "old self" and the "new self".
What are some of the contrasts that Paul makes?
Follow Up: What are some of the examples of "deceitful desires" that you may
need to put o?
Q. What does 4:32 say about forgiveness? Do you need to forgive anyone?
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Ephesians 5:1-21
Walk in Love
5
Therefore be imitators of God, as beloved children.
2
And walk in love, as
Christ loved us and gave himself up for us, a fragrant oering and sacrifice
to God.
3
But sexual immorality and all impurity or covetousness must not even be named
among you, as is proper among saints.
4
Let there be no filthiness nor foolish talk
nor crude joking, which are out of place, but instead let there be thanksgiving.
5
For you may be sure of this, that everyone who is sexually immoral or impure,
or who is covetous (that is, an idolater), has no inheritance in the kingdom of
Christ and God.
6
Let no one deceive you with empty words, for because of these
things the wrath of God comes upon the sons of disobedience.
7
Therefore do not
become partners with them;
8
for at one time you were darkness, but now you
are light in the Lord. Walk as children of light
9
(for the fruit of light is found in all
that is good and right and true),
10
and try to discern what is pleasing to the Lord.
11
Take no part in the unfruitful works of darkness, but instead expose them.
12
For it is shameful even to speak of the things that they do in secret.
13
But when
anything is exposed by the light, it becomes visible,
14
for anything that becomes
visible is light. Therefore it says,
Awake, O sleeper,
and arise from the dead,
and Christ will shine on you.
15
Look carefully then how you walk, not as unwise but as wise,
16
making the
best use of the time, because the days are evil.
17
Therefore do not be foolish,
but understand what the will of the Lord is.
18
And do not get drunk with wine,
for that is debauchery, but be filled with the Spirit,
19
addressing one another in
psalms and hymns and spiritual songs, singing and making melody to the Lord
with your heart,
20
giving thanks always and for everything to God the Father in
the name of our Lord Jesus Christ,
21
submitting to one another out of reverence
for Christ.
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READ EPHESIANS 5:1-21
Some of Paul's strongest warnings against sin are present within this passage.
Coupled with it, Paul calls for believers to allow their love for Christ to be exhibited
in the way they walk and carry themselves.
Q. Connect the dots between what Paul says in Ephesians 5:1 and what he says at
the start of the book in Ephesians 1:5.
Follow Up: What does it mean to "imitate God"? Does this seem impossible? Or
does it encourage you?
Q. In verse 3, sexual immorality, impurity, and covetousness are strictly prohibited
by Paul, stating that they have no place amongst the people of God. He also calls
out the way in which we use our words in verse 4. Are these issues prevalent among
Christians today?
Follow Up: If so, what impact is that having on the Church? On its ability to witness
to an unbelieving world?
Q. What are some of the warnings Paul gives for participating in behavior that is not
in alignment with God and what He calls his people to?
Q. Paul brings about instruction that we, as followers of Jesus, should be light in the
dark world around us. This does not just simply mean avoiding participating in it,
but he goes even further in stating we should expose the works of darkness (verse
11). How might we do this today? How does the Holy Spirit provide wisdom and
boldness for this task?
Q. Paul juxtaposes "drunk with wine" and "filled with the Spirit". What dierences
would characterize one who enjoys debauchery and one whose life is evidenced
with being filled with the Spirit?
personal application / reflection
Ephesians 5:14 says, “Awake, O sleeper, and arise from the dead, and Christ will
shine on you.” This quote is most likely a mixture of lines from Isaiah (Isaiah 9:2;
26:19; 50:9–10; 60:1–2). It’s important to take an honest look at our lives and
examine the ways we are called to put on the new self and walk in love. As we do
this, we are to look for areas that may still be dead and hiding in the darkness.
Where does the light of Christ need to shine in your life right now? This is not an
exercise to shame nor produce guilt, but to align our lives and hearts with Christ.
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Family Discussion
Q. What is a “hard heart”
(think of Pharaoh in
Exodus)?
Wow Words/Big Ideas
Since we are adopted into God’s
family, we are to live for the
Kingdom of God, not the way the world says to live.
Believers are “born again” and made into a new creation. We may
be the worst of sinners, yet Jesus can forgive us and transform our
lives.
It is described as a “new man,” and a “new self” as opposed to
the “old man” (not age) and the “old self.
Believers must make a clean break with their behavior that
was a part of their lives before they became followers of
Jesus.
Though they are made new, sinful tendencies remain.
Believers will struggle with lying, anger, stealing, naughty
words, hard feelings, and even bitterness.
The Gospel is not just used to tell people how to become followers
of Jesus. Aer becoming a Jesus follower, you
learn to live like
the holy person you’ve already begun to be, each day, more and
more. We grow with our hope in the Gospel.
Going Deeper
Ephesians is a book about God’s love. Believes are called to allow
God’s love and forgiveness for them to be shown in the way they
live, love, and forgive (Matthew 6:14-15, Matthew 18:35, Mark
11:24
, Luke 11:4).
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Verse to Remember
Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one
another, as God in Christ forgave you. Ephesians 4:32
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MARRIAGE AS A VISUAL REPRESENTATION
EPHESIANS 5:21-33
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Introduction
As we've seen in the book of
Ephesians, the Apostle Paul has gone
to great lengths to teach and remind
us of the Gospel - what it is and what
it calls us to.
The Gospel has grand implications
for our relationships. Up to this point,
Paul has spoken about how believers
are to engage and interact with the
world around them at large and
within the Church. At this point in his
letter, he turns the attention to our
homes. In this week's passage, Paul
touches on the key responsibilities
of husbands and wives and gives us
a beautiful analogy of Christ and the
Church.
MAIN IDEA
Marriage is a mystery, but a Gospel-
centered marriage points to God’s
love for us.
Conversation Starter
Q. We all have pet peeves; some of us
have words that get under our skin.
Share a pet peeve or a word that you
don’t like.
Read & Discuss
READ EPHESIANS 5:22-33
Consider having a woman read verses
22-25, and a man read verses 26-33.
Note for this week
This can be a challenging portion
of Scripture. Sadly, it has been so
misinterpreted and abused that
many women avoid reading it
and the men teaching it tend to
approach it with hesitation. With
that in mind, let’s prayerfully
approach this section, asking
the Holy Spirit to remove our
preconceived ideas in exchange
for the truth. Be gentle with one
another and remember it is the
role of the Holy Spirit to move our
hearts, not man.
The questions this week are
broken up into three sections:
whole group discussion,
questions for women, and
questions for men. We also
understand that there are many
who are not currently married.
We have provided questions
for them as well. Feel free to
have the group discussion and
then move into separate spaces
for the men’s and womens
conversations. The questions for
women were written by Sarah
Glassett, our Director of Spiritual
Formation to Women, while the
questions for men were craed
by Sarahs husband Luke, who is
an Elder.
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21
...submitting to one another out of reverence for Christ.
Wives and Husbands
22
Wives, submit to your own husbands, as to the Lord.
23
For the husband is the
head of the wife even as Christ is the head of the church, his body, and is himself
its Savior.
24
Now as the church submits to Christ, so also wives should submit in
everything to their husbands.
25
Husbands, love your wives, as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for
her,
26
that he might sanctify her, having cleansed her by the washing of water with
the word,
27
so that he might present the church to himself in splendor, without
spot or wrinkle or any such thing, that she might be holy and without blemish.
28
In the same way husbands should love their wives as their own bodies. He who
loves his wife loves himself.
29
For no one ever hated his own flesh, but nourishes
and cherishes it, just as Christ does the church,
30
because we are members of his
body.
31
“Therefore a man shall leave his father and mother and hold fast to his
wife, and the two shall become one flesh.
32
This mystery is profound, and I am
saying that it refers to Christ and the church.
33
However, let each one of you love
his wife as himself, and let the wife see that she respects her husband.
discussion questions for the group
Q. Submission can seem like a dirty word. It’s important for everyone to start on
the same page. What is submission? What isn’t it? If you’ve got the ability, make
a T-chart listing what submission is and isn’t for reference during the discussion.
What are some good examples of submission in the Scriptures?
Q. Look back to verses 15-21. How does "submitting to one another out of
reverence for Christ” set the context of this passage?
Q. Christ gives us the ultimate example of submission. Read Philippians 2:1-8.
Sin makes submission scary and painful because sinful people take advantage
of others and use their power for themselves. How does Christ’s example further
clarify your understanding of submission?
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Q. The Gospel should aect every area of our lives, including how we interact
with our spouse. Ephesians 5:22-33 is what a Gospel-centered marriage looks
like; it is a restorative view of marriage, God’s perfect plan all along. How does
it help you to understand that a marriage that looks like this was God’s plan,
before sin entered the world? How does it challenge you?
Q. What does this passage teach us
about the Church?
discussion questions for wives
Instead of using this time to focus on
why submission is hard or unpopular,
focus on what Godly submission
looks like and how you can grow.
It’s important to note that when it
wife submits to her husband, she is
not looking the other way while her
husband sins, it does not condone
abuse, or mean you she is a doormat. If
you are in an abusive marriage, please
let someone at the Church know. We want to help you.
Q. A wife that submits to her husband allows him to be responsible for her.
This can be frightening and hard. What steps can you take to grow? What
conversations might you need to have with him?
Q. When we take time to grow in our trust of the Lord, understanding His good
character, and love for His children, we can grow in our ability to submit to our
husbands. Why do you think this is?
Q. Notice in verses 23-24 that the Church is mentioned as an example of
submission to Christ. Healthy, strong leadership is a gi from God! We know
from Genesis 1:26-28 that both men and women are created equally in God’s
image and that we are heirs together of eternal life (Galatians 3:28-29). We are
of equal value with dierent, complimentary roles. How does looking at the role
of the wife through a Gospel-centered lens help you tackle the misconceptions
of submission?
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Discussion questions for husbands
Is it ever your duty to remind your wife to submit? I will answer this one for you:
NO! I would even go so far as to say that you should not even use this verse
in jest. To joke to your wife about "submitting to you" only reinforces falsely-
established norms of patriarchal superiority. It misses the point entirely.
Q. Paul compares a husband being
head of his wife to Jesus as head of his
Church. Knowing this, in what ways
can a husband model Jesus? Are there
verses you can think of that you can use
as guidance? Hint: Philippians 3:2-11.
Q. If our wives are supposed to submit
to us, what is the corresponding weight
of responsibility placed on a husband’s
shoulders?
Q. According to verse 25, what does
it look like to love our wives as Christ
loved the Church? What are some practical ways you can give yourself up for
your wife?
A note to our single brothers and sisters
Just because Paul focuses on marriage for this portion does not mean there
isn’t an important, necessary role for the single population in the Church. It
also doesn’t mean that we can’t all use Jesus’ example of submission as our
guideline for the way we live. Christ lived a life of submission to the Father, and
we are each called to model that in our distinct roles.
Q. We are called to submit to one another out of reverence for Christ (Ephesians
5:21). What does Godly submission look like outside of marriage? How
should this look inside and outside of the Church? Use Christ’s life as your
encouragement and example.
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Q. What role does submission play in a Gospel-centered life? How does our
submission, or deference, to others point them to Christ? How do you think
living this way can open the door to Gospel conversations?
Q. How does your life point others to God’s love for us? How can you grow here?
WIVES
According to verse 33, have a conversation with
your husband about what respect looks like to him.
You might be surprised! Oen, words have dierent
meanings to dierent people.
personal application / reflection
HUSBANDS
According to verses 28-30, ask your wife the following
questions: What makes you feel nourished by me? How
can I make you feel cherished?
SINGLES
Have a conversation with a friend about what Godly
submission looks like practically. Where can you grow
as someone who looks first to the needs of others and
are willing to lay down your wants and desires for their
benefit?
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Family Discussion
Q. People are the same, yet
dierent. We all need water,
food, shelter, etc., but are all
unique in our own way. What
are some other examples of “the
same, but dierent?”
Wow Words/Big Ideas
Review the idea of head and body when it comes to the Church
from Week 9.
Submit: A voluntary yielding to one who has authority.
Submission is not blind obedience.
Soldiers follow their commanders, members of the church
yield to their pastors/elders, and all people submit to the
government. (1 Peter 3:5, Romans 13:1)
Jesus called His disciples to serve one another and resist the
urge to be overbearing, or bossy with each other (
Mark 10:42-
45).
Paul encourages believers to defer to the needs and interests
of others by considering others more highly than they
consider themselves (
Philippians 2:2-3).
Submission involves subduing pride and selfish pursuits.
Just as Jesus is the head of the body of the church, the
husband is
the head of the family.
The husband’s leadership is directed by a self-sacrificial love
like Jesus’ love and sacrifice on the cross.
This is not a heavy-handed and demeaning attitude of
husbands to wives.
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Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one
another, as God in Christ forgave you. Ephesians 4:32
A husband’s responsibility is to love, cherish, and serve his wife.
A wife is called to submit to her husband.
This deferring to her husband is made easier when she knows
her husband will put her needs above his own and treat her
like Jesus treats the church.
Going Deeper
Ephesians is a book about God’s love. God created man and
woman equally in God’s image (Genesis 1:26-28), and we are heirs
together of eternal life (Galatians 3:28-29). We are of equal value
with dierent, complimentary roles.
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EPHESIANS 6:1-9
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Introduction
Paul continues to provide us with
a holistic approach to Gospel-
centered living as he walks out Gospel
implications for our everyday lives.
Paul has taken great care and eort
to address the most foundational
relationship that each of us has or
will experience. Aer taking time to
discuss our relationship with God and
how that will impact how we live and
reflect Jesus in our daily walk, our
relationships within the church, within
the marital relationship, Paul now turns
his attention to parents, children, and
our work environments.
MAIN IDEA
Christlike actions in the house and
workplace are also a worship to God.
Conversation Starter
Q. Each of us has (or had) parents. What
was your experience in honoring your
parents?
Read & Discuss
READ EPHESIANS 6:1-4
Q. Exodus 20:12 is cited by Paul in
verses 2-3. How does the idea of
"honoring" your parents fall in line with
Paul's initial command of "obey"?
Follow Up: At what age does this cease
to be applicable to us?
EPHESIANS 6:1-9
Children and Parents
6
Children, obey your parents
in the Lord, for this is right.
2
“Honor your father and mother”
(this is the first commandment
with a promise),
3
“that it may go
well with you and that you may live
long in the land.
4
Fathers, do not
provoke your children to anger, but
bring them up in the discipline and
instruction of the Lord.
Bondservants and Masters
5
Bondservants, obey your earthly
masters with fear and trembling,
with a sincere heart, as you would
Christ,
6
not by the way of eye-
service, as people-pleasers, but
as bondservants of Christ, doing
the will of God from the heart,
7
rendering service with a good will
as to the Lord and not to man,
8
knowing that whatever good
anyone does, this he will receive
back from the Lord, whether he is
a bondservant or is free.
9
Masters,
do the same to them, and stop
your threatening, knowing that he
who is both their Master and yours
is in heaven, and that there is no
partiality with him.
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Q. In what ways could a parent
"provoke" their child to anger?
Follow Up: The word provoke in the
letter's original language meant "to
bring to anger", not necessarily as a
one-time instance, but as a long-term
problem. Understanding that, does it
make a dierence as to how we take
instruction here?
Q. According to this passage, whose
responsibility is it to discipline and
train children?
Follow Up: How might you teach your children the basic doctrines of the faith?
Are you doing this?
Follow Up: Turn to Deuteronomy 6:4-9. What do these verses tell us about
imparting our faith to our children?
Q. Notice how Paul ends this instruction with stating we are training and
disciplining our children in the Lord. This means we are to make disciples of
our children and not just good citizens. Does this impact the way you view
parenting?
"Every single household is showing
and demonstrating one of two
realities: a God who identifies with
his people, provides for his people,
protects his people and gives his
people a future; or a god who
ignores his people, who gives no
future for his people and will grind
his people to bits."
4 Priorities for Every Gospel-
Centered Parent by Russel Moore
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READ EPHESIANS 6:5-9
Note about this section: The situation Paul
addressed was not like slavery in American
history. It was complex and massive in
scope. American slavery was primarily racial
and lifelong. In Paul’s day it was not racial,
and it was not always lifelong. There were
some similarities, but it was dierent. It is
estimated that bondservants composed
about one-third of the population of a city like
Ephesus. They were considered an integral
part of a family, so Paul’s instructions for
bondservants were a natural part of his
dealing with family relationships. In this
culture, a bondservant could own his own
property; but even so, he may have had
limited rights under his master and could
have become the object of abuse. One should not think of contemporary forms of
racially-driven slavery, kidnapping of children to make soldiers, or sex traicking when
thinking of the bondservants mentioned in the Bible, for they are not equivalent. While
Paul does not call for the abolition of slavery, the radical teaching of equality in texts
such as this one laid the foundation for its dissolution. A better modern-day comparison
would be an employee under the authority of a supervisor, manager, or owner.
Q. Drawing a parallel between what Paul is speaking of here and our current
work situation, how do should these verses inform our work ethic?
Q. Verse 9 is oen a verse we may miss the shock the initial readers would have
experienced when they read “masters treat your bondservants in the same
way” How should these verses inform the way we relate to people we work
with - especially if we are someone who holds authority over others?
Follow Up: What is the reason that Paul gives for this? What does he root his
argument in?
Q. Thinking about what we have covered over the past few weeks, what are
the common elements Paul includes for each group (husband/wives, parents/
children, masters/bondservant)?
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SLAVERY
Slavery is one of the oldest institutions of man. While some cultures have
practiced slavery as a means of helping the poor or employing skilled
workers (Exodus 21:1–6; Deuteronomy 15:12–18), many cultures use
slavery as a means to separate and subjugate a class or race of people,
while exalting the owners and making them wealthy.
Paul’s instructions on slavery and the slave-master relationship are
complex. Although he never calls for dismantling the institution, he
does encourage Christian slaves to gain their freedom when possible (1
Corinthians 7:21). However, those who remain slaves to human masters
should see themselves as free in Christ (1 Corinthians 7:22). Peter would
later add that slaves should submit themselves even to masters who treat
them cruelly or unjustly, following the example of Christ (1 Peter 2:18–25).
The Godly actions of believing slaves and masters manifest the life-
changing power of Christ to all (Titus 2:9), make the slaves better
employees (Ephesians 6:6-7), promote brotherhood and equality in Christ
between slave and master (Ephesians 6:9; Philemon 15:16), and give
dignity to all slaves as Christian masters deal kindly with those under their
authority (Ephesians 6:9). The fact that slavery in the modern world is not
practiced with any sense of Christian ideals, but instead degrades, abuses,
tortures, and dehumanizes people as captives, sex objects, or property,
argues for the Christian to seek the abolition of slavery today as an act of
justice (Psalm 82:4; Proverbs 21:3, 15; 24:10–12; Isaiah 58:6–7; Micah 6:8;
Matthew 12:18–20; Luke 11:42).
Credit to Crossway's Ephesians: A 12-Week Study by Eric C. Redmond
personal application / reflection
This week's passage showed us a lot about two of the biggest arenas of our lives we
live in daily. Take some time to pray specifically for these relationships. Pray for the
families in your group and families in our church at large, that the parents may be
able to live a life worth emulating and be able to teach and train their children in
the Lord. Pray for your employer and fellow employees. If there is something that
needs to be confessed and repented of in one of these areas, do it.
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Family Discussion
Q. Besides getting “punished”
or having consequences for our
actions, why is it not good for
us to disobey our parents or our
bosses?
Wow Words/Big Ideas
Review the idea of head and body when it comes to the Church
from Week 9.
Review submit and head of family from Week 11.
Just as God expects His children (us, including adults and your
parents) to have an attitude of obedience to Him, children are
to obey their parents. We are also to honor God and our parents,
which means to respect and love.
Fathers are called to use sensitivity and moderation when
asserting authority and discipline to their children.
Believers should do their jobs well (that includes your chores at
home)—even when no one is looking.
Going Deeper
Ephesians is a book about God’s love—sharing God’s love with
others. That includes parents making disciples in their families
(Matthew 28:18-20, Deuteronomy 6:5-7).
fAmily
disCipLeship
Verse to Remember
Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one
another, as God in Christ forgave you. Ephesians 4:32
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Introduction
As we conclude our study in the book of Ephesians, we come to the final
major section that many people are familiar with. What's surprising about this
passage is that it appears to be a hard le turn in contrast to what Paul has
been speaking about household and workplace relationships. However, if we
take a step back, we see this section helps tie up the letter, speaking to how
believers need to know there's more at play behind the curtain in their day-to-
day lives. Paul uses battle imagery as he calls all of us to stand firm amid the
spiritual war that is in progress.
MAIN IDEA
Stand firm by God's power with God's armor.
Conversation Starter
Q. What comes to mind when you hear the phrase "spiritual warfare"?
Follow Up: What emotions come to mind when you even consider discussing
this topic? Fear? Excitement? Uncertainty?
Read & Discuss
READ EPHESIANS 6:10-24
Q. What are some of the schemes and strategies have you seen the devil
attempt to use? Hint: Two of his biggest attacks are deceiving (see Genesis 3:4-5;
2 Corinthians 4:4; 2 Corinthians 11:14) and accusations (see Mathew 13:38-39;
Revelation 12:10).
“There are two equal and opposite errors into which our race can fall about the
devils. One is to disbelieve in their existence. The other is to believe, and to feel an
excessive and unhealthy interest in them. They themselves are equally pleased by
both errors and hail a materialist or a magician with the same delight.
The Screwtape Letters
by C.S. Lewis
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The Whole Armor of God
10
Finally, be strong in the Lord and in the strength of his might.
11
Put
on the whole armor of God, that you may be able to stand against the
schemes of the devil.
12
For we do not wrestle against flesh and blood, but
against the rulers, against the authorities, against the cosmic powers over
this present darkness, against the spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly
places.
13
Therefore take up the whole armor of God, that you may be able
to withstand in the evil day, and having done all, to stand firm.
14
Stand
therefore, having fastened on the belt of truth, and having put on the
breastplate of righteousness,
15
and, as shoes for your feet, having put on
the readiness given by the gospel of peace.
16
In all circumstances take up
the shield of faith, with which you can extinguish all the flaming darts of
the evil one;
17
and take the helmet of salvation, and the sword of the Spirit,
which is the word of God,
18
praying at all times in the Spirit, with all prayer
and supplication. To that end, keep alert with all perseverance, making
supplication for all the saints,
19
and also for me, that words may be given to
me in opening my mouth boldly to proclaim the mystery of the gospel,
20
for
which I am an ambassador in chains, that I may declare it boldly, as I ought
to speak.
Final Greetings
21
So that you also may know how I am and what I am doing, Tychicus the
beloved brother and faithful minister in the Lord will tell you everything.
22
I
have sent him to you for this very purpose, that you may know how we are,
and that he may encourage your hearts.
23
Peace be to the brothers, and love with faith, from God the Father and the
Lord Jesus Christ. 24 Grace be with all who love our Lord Jesus Christ with
love incorruptible.
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Follow Up: Which of these
schemes and strategies have
been most eective against you?
Q. “Flesh and blood” is a
figurative way of talking about
people. If people are not the
enemy, how come so oen we
perceive our battle is against
someone else rather than seeing
the true nature of the struggle?
Q. What are the two commands
Paul gives as instruction for
believers against the evil one's
attack? Hint: Be strong in the Lord;
put on the armor of God.
Follow Up: Paul says we should
be strong in the Lord. How does
this dier from self-eort?
Follow Up: Four times in this
small section, the word "stand" is
used. Why do you think that is?
Q. Paul describes the main pieces of equipment for protection. What are these
pieces and how do you use each part of the armor to protect yourself? Hint:
Belt of Truth; Breastplate of Righteousness; Shoes of Readiness; Shield of Faith;
Helmet of Salvation; Sword of the Spirit.
Follow Up: Read Isaiah 52:7, how does this help us to understand what is meant
by “feet fitted with the readiness that comes from the gospel of peace?
Follow Up: Do a quick self-assessment regarding each piece of your "spiritual
armor". Is it in good condition? Is it taken care of well? Is it lost somewhere or
packaged away in the garage?
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Q. One of the main ways we can extinguish the "flaming darts" of the evil one is
being familiar with the Scriptures to combat lies with truth. Can you think of a
time Jesus did this during His life and ministry? Hint: See Matthew 4:1-11.
Follow Up: What were the lies/deceptions Satan attempted to use against
Jesus? How did He respond to each one?
Q. Yet again, we find repetition in Paul's words, stressing something important.
In verse 18, "all" appears four times, instructing the believers on prayer during
the war. What does each "all" say about the importance of prayer in our lives?
additional resources -
spiritual warfare
Secret Church (4.5 hrs) – David
Platt – Angels, Demons, Spiritual
Warfare
Podcast (13 min) – The Doctrine of
Spiritual Warfare
Video (8 min) – Demons &
Spiritual Warfare - Russell Moore
personal application /
reflection
Spend some time as a group, or
individually, thinking through the
past 13 weeks of this study. What
stands out the most for you?
How has this letter aected your
understanding of God? The church?
Your Christian walk?
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Family Discussion
Q. We wear a helmet when we go
biking. What are some protective
devices for the following: soccer,
football, parachuting, driving,
rollerblading, and boating?
Why is this protective gear
important?
Wow Words/Big Ideas
God wants to strengthen His people through an active connection
to Jesus. The emphasis on verse 10 is not on “be strong,” but on
“in the Lord.” It is elaborated with the imagery of armor:
The belt of truth protects against the “father of lies”—the
Devil.
The breastplate of righteousness protects our heart and soul.
It goes on aer the belt of truth—we recognize that our being
made right with God has nothing to do with us. Apart from
Him, we can do nothing. We know we are “in Christ.
Our feet are fitted with the Gospel of peace. We are firm (feet
planted) in our position of “in Christ.” We are also moving—
taking the Gospel (the good news) to others.
The shield of faith is solid and substantial. We can trust that
God is true and His Word is eective.
The helmet of salvation protects our head—our way of
thinking, knowing and believing spiritual truths.
The sword of the Spirit is the Word of God.
Just as a soldier would need help in putting on his armor, we are
called to arm each other through
prayer.
fAmily
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Verse to Remember
Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one
another, as God in Christ forgave you. Ephesians 4:32
Going Deeper
Ephesians is a book about God’s love. We have access to so
much, including His strength. Each piece of armor represents
a part of God’s strength that He extends to us when we
become His children.
We are directed to “put on” this armor, which means that
we do not wear it all the time. Putting on the armor of God
involves a conscious decision on our part.
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