Danny Gagnon© PhD, Psychologist (514) 605-7610
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2. Next, it is important to define what that need means to you, as well as how you can
work to achieve it. For example, if intimacy is an important need, what does it mean to
you? Is it a simple hug of affection, is it lying in bed with your partner, is it sexual
intercourse, all of these, etc.? It is important to define each need because people can
vary in what a need means to them. Furthermore, once you have defined the need, it will
help you identify ways to have the need fulfilled.
Need: ________________ Definition: What does this need mean to me?
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What behaviour can I engage in to get this need satisfied?
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Need: ________________ Definition: What does this need mean to me?
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What behaviour can I engage in to get this need satisfied?
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Need: ________________ Definition: What does this need mean to me?
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What behaviour can I engage in to get this need satisfied?
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Need: ________________ Definition: What does this need mean to me?
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What behaviour can I engage in to get this need satisfied?
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Need: ________________ Definition: What does this need mean to me?
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What behaviour can I engage in to get this need satisfied?
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